Recently I finished reading a very interesting book entitled “The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks” by Rebecca Skloot. Although I had seen a news story about the book earlier in the year, I had no intention of reading it. A new friend, invited me to a book club that featured the book as a topic. Initially I was pretty excited when I thought about the chance to read the story, however, when I saw the size of the book (more than 350 pages), I didn’t think I’d want to read it. In essence, the book is about a poor, black woman from the South named Henrietta Lacks who died of cervical cancer. However, without Henrietta or her family’s knowledge, doctors removed cancerous cells from her body and created the now famous HeLa cells, which are one of the most used cells in human history. The HeLa cells have been instrumental in research that’s worth billions of dollars and millions of lives. I learned so much about the Lacks family and cell culture while reading this book. But more importantly, I learned about the author, Rebecca Skloot. It took her 10 years to write this book and it was not easy. She fought and dug until she completed the book. Often times while reading, I asked myself whether I would’ve worked as hard to finish something like this. Is my passion burning enough in me that I would endue years of discomfort, pain, uneasiness etc. for the sake of my passion. I can’t really answer that question now. I can say this: I admire Ms. Skloot’s diligent journey into Henrietta Lack’s life.
Author: Kimyetta Hayden
I'm honored to serve the Lord Jesus.
Success is…
Do you remember the Robin Givens character in the movie, Boomerang? She was the strong, successful Corporate boss who dominated Eddie Murphy. Well, that was supposed to me. I had a plan. Go to college. Get a good job. Get promoted and then become the boss. At least, that’s what I thought for a few years in my life. My self-perception was so mired in my title and accomplishments that it became a stronghold in my life. In other words, I was in bondage to my warped definition of success. I thought my success was about what other people thought of me. Success was all about impressing people. It didn’t matter what I felt like inside. It didn’t matter that I wasn’t helping others. It was all about me and it was a lonely existence. Today, almost 20 years after Boomerang appeared in theaters, I can honestly say, I’ve changed. Success is simply doing my best to fulfill God’s will for my life, regardless of whether anyone notices or not. God sees our actions, but more importantly he sees our hearts.
The Impact of Defeat
I like to win. Period. Whenever I’m focused on a goal, I accomplish it. So recently when I suffered a major defeat related to a goal, I was crushed. At first, I thought I handled it pretty well. However, as the days went by, I noticed something inside of me not functioning right. My heart began to sink subtly to the point, that I regressed back to some old negative habits that I thought were broken. As I began to dissect “the defeat”, I realized it wasn’t “my defeat” at all. You see, given my circumstances, I did everything I could do. I had no control over the major components that helped cause the defeat. I actually went over and above in an attempt to do what I do: WIN. So I wasted a month lamenting a loss that I never owned in the first place. I thank God that He showed me the truth. I can only control what I can control, and I must release what I have no control over. Period. So although the project was a losing project, I’m still a winner and this defeat should not, and will not define me… ever.
Burn a Hole in it!
This is a picture of chicken bouillon in my cabinet. Of course, it looks weird because it has a hole in the bottom of the container. Well, there’s a reason for that. A few weeks ago, while cooking dinner, I tried to open the bullion container, it wouldn’t open. I did everything to open it. I used a towel . I beat it. I twisted it and even got a tool to open it. Still nothing. So instead of giving up or settling to cook without it, I decided to burn a hole in it. You heard me. I got a match and burned a hole in the bottom to melt the plastic. Ten seconds later… voiola… I was plopping bullion cubes into my boiling water… victoriously. The moral of the story is: In life, doors will close, things will look bleak and you can do everything you can to succeed. Even when you’re at the very edge of trying to breakthrough whatever is holding you back: DONT QUIT! Kick in the door, knock down the walls, break out, break through, burst forth… whatever you’ve got to do… just do it!
Redefining the “Rich” Life
A few days ago, I celebrated my birthday. I didn’t have a big party or do anything really grand. I had a small intimate breakfast with my family and close friends. Before my birthday, the Lord began to impress the words “Rich Life” on my heart. I knew immediately it wasn’t about money. It was about me having an outstanding husband, healthy children, a supportive family, a wonderful mentor and of course, a close relationship with HIM. I am extraordinarily blessed. This life is not the life I envisioned for myself 20 years ago, or even 10 years ago. However, it’s an amazingly wonderful life. In a flash of a moment, God showed me that my life is full, rewarding and indeed rich because of the purpose and passion I have for what He has given me. My prayer for each of you reading this blog, is that you would reach out to God and allow him to redefine what “rich” means to you. Think about it and pray about it.
